{"id":2566,"date":"2024-10-08T16:36:09","date_gmt":"2024-10-08T16:36:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/coaching.evylou.com\/le-poids-du-chagrin\/"},"modified":"2026-03-24T18:08:46","modified_gmt":"2026-03-24T18:08:46","slug":"le-poids-du-chagrin","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/coaching.evylou.com\/en\/le-poids-du-chagrin\/","title":{"rendered":"Le poids du chagrin"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>[et_pb_section fb_built=&#8221;1&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.27.0&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; theme_builder_area=&#8221;post_content&#8221;][et_pb_row _builder_version=&#8221;4.27.0&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; theme_builder_area=&#8221;post_content&#8221;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;4_4&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.27.0&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; theme_builder_area=&#8221;post_content&#8221;][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;4.27.0&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; theme_builder_area=&#8221;post_content&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p><em>Extrait du livre de Michel Onfray \u2013 \u00ab Le deuil de la m\u00e9lancholie \u00bb<\/em><\/p>\n<p>La vie, c\u2019est alors \u00e7a. On nomme deuil cette chose-l\u00e0\u2026 Elle est aussi m\u00e9lancholie. Ma compagne est morte. Doroth\u00e9e voit ma peine et se croit coupable de ne pas pouvoir la tarir tout de suite en ignorant que, sans elle, la peine aurait compl\u00e8tement eu raison de moi ; les vieux \u00ab amis \u00bb ont disparu ; les nouveaux \u00ab amis \u00bb ne sont pas amicaux ; le travail prend toute la place \u2013 il est le seul cordial. A table, on se venge. Je cuisine, je mange, j\u2019ouvre une bouteille ; je cuisine, on invite, on mange, j\u2019ouvre des bouteilles ;je cuisine, je mange, j\u2019ouvre une bouteille : je cuisine, on invite, on mange, j\u2019ouvre des bouteilles ; je cuisine, je mange, j\u2019ouvre une bouteille : je cuisine, on invite, on mange, j\u2019ouvre des bouteilles.Je prends alors 15 kilos\u2026 C\u2019est le poids du chagrin, le poids de la peine, le poids de la souffrance, le poids du deuil. Je vois mon corps changer, \u00e9paissir, grossier, s\u2019emp\u00e2ter. Mon visage semble rentrer \u00e0 l\u2019int\u00e9rieur d\u2019une lune adipeuse (\u2026). Ce corps est trop lourd \u00e0 porter car son \u00e2me l\u2019est trop \u00e9galement. Et c\u2019est ce corps qui tombe ce samedi 27 janvier quand j\u2019arrive \u00e0 Paris vers 19h30 et que je descends du train gare Saint Lazare. Si je change de corps, j\u2019aurai chang\u00e9 d\u2019\u00e2me ; si je change d\u2019\u00e2me, j\u2019aurai chang\u00e9 de corps. Il me faut perdre cette surcharge existentielle parce qu\u2019elle se nourrit du deuil et de la m\u00e9lancholie et qu\u2019elle nourrit en m\u00eame temps le deuil et la m\u00e9lancholie. Il me faut vouloir le deuil de ma m\u00e9lancholie. Je vais le vouloir ; je veux le vouloir ; je le veux d\u00e9j\u00e0. 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